How to Involve Siblings During Home Birth

Bringing a new baby into the family is a big deal - especially for older siblings. Their world is about to shift in a major way, and wondering how that transition will go can add stress on top of bringing a newborn into the home. If you’re planning a home birth, you might be wondering: Should they be part of it? Will they be interested? Will they freak out?

The good news? With a little prep, siblings can actually be a really sweet part of the birth experience and witness birth as a natural and beautiful event rather than a mysterious or overwhelming process.

Prep Older Siblings for a Home Birth

Preparation is everything. You don’t want your toddler waking up in the morning totally confused about why you’re in a birth pool when he just wants his breakfast. Here are some tips to set them (and you!) up for success:

  1. Talk About Birth in an Age-Appropriate Way
    Explain how babies are born in a way that makes sense for their age. Keep it simple for little ones (“Mommy might make some loud noises that help the baby come out!” “It can get a little messy, but mommy is not hurt and everything will get cleaned up later.”), and a bit more detailed for older kids. Consider showing them a calm home birth video so they are aware of what it may look and sound like.

Picture books, videos, and storytelling can help make the concept more relatable. Some great books include Hello Baby by Jenni Overend and Welcome With Love by Jenni Overend.

  1. Let Them Help Set Up
    Kids love to feel involved! Let them help set up the birth space by picking out blankets, choosing a special toy for the baby, or making a “Welcome Baby” sign.

  2. Make a Plan
    Decide in advance where your child will be during labor. Some kids will want to be front-and-center, and others may be floating in and out. Having a trusted adult available to support and guide them—such as a grandparent, friend, or doula—can provide flexibility.

    Make sure you have a backup plan - birth can sometimes become intense, so make sure the child has a cozy place to go to if needed. If labor kicks in at night (as it so often does), will they wake up or sleep through it? Have a plan in place for every timing scenario.

  3. Play “Pretend Birth”
    Children often process emotions through play. Use dolls or stuffed animals to act out labor, pushing, and meeting the baby. This is a fun way to help them learn and feel ready for the real thing!

How to Involve Siblings in the Birth Process

If a child wants to be a part of the big moment, their role can be as interactive or observational as they and you feel comfortable with. Here are some ways to make them feel included:

  • Being a Birth Partner – They can offer water, cool washcloths, or hold your hand.

  • Announcing the Baby’s Arrival – Let them be the first to say, “The baby is here!” If the baby’s sex is a surprise and they are old enough to know the difference, they could be the ones to announce if it is a boy or girl.

  • First Greetings – Allow them to gently touch or talk to their new sibling right after birth.

  • Cutting the Cord – An older child could be involved in cord cutting under supervision.

  • Taking Photos or Drawing the Moment – Giving a child a small camera or letting them draw a picture of the birth scene can help them feel included and remember the day.

Remember, it’s up to the child if they want to do any of these things at all! Let them take the lead on how much they want to watch or be a part of the process.

Helping Siblings Transition After Birth

Once the baby arrives, emotions can be mixed—joy, excitement, and even jealousy. Here are some ways to make the transition smoother:

  • One-on-One Time – Spend special moments with your older child to reassure them that they’re still an important part of the family. Even just 10 focused minutes can make a huge difference.

  • Let Them Help – Ask them to help with small tasks, like picking out the baby’s clothes, grabbing a diaper, or singing a lullaby.

  • Validate Their Feelings – If they’re struggling, let them know it’s okay to express their emotions! Remind them that they’re still super important and that love keeps growing with the family.

  • Make Them Feel Special – Help them embrace their new identity as a big sibling with a “helper” badge, a special book, or a one-on-one “big sibling date.”

Home birth can be such an incredible experience for older siblings, as long as they are prepared and supported. The key is making them feel included, respected, and loved.

At the end of the day, this is a huge transition for everyone, but with a little planning (and lots of patience!), you can create a foundation for a strong sibling bond and a cherished family memory.

Postpartum Recovery Tips

Congratulations, you’ve brought a new life into the world! While so much focus is on your little bundle of joy, let’s not forget about you. Postpartum recovery is a big deal, and taking care of yourself is just as important as caring for your baby.

The postpartum period, often referred to as the "fourth trimester," is the time when mothers need to allow their bodies to recover and heal. Not only have you just given birth, but you also need to recoup after 9 months of pregnancy!

Physical Recovery: Take It One Day at a Time

Rest, Rest, Rest
Your body has just done an incredible thing, and it needs time to recover. No matter where or how you gave birth, listen to your body. Sleep when you can (easier said than done, I know) and don’t be afraid to say “no” to nonessential visitors or tasks.

Fuel Your Recovery
Eat good food—like, really good food. Think hearty soups, proteins, and fiber-rich snacks. Keep a water bottle handy, especially if you’re breastfeeding, because staying hydrated is key for healing and milk production.

Healing Your Way

Ice packs, sitz baths, and perineal sprays will be your new best friends. After the first 24 hours, switch out the ice packs for heat. Traditional postpartum wisdom suggests avoiding the cold as much as possible - that means not going barefoot on cold floors (hello, fuzzy socks!) and avoiding cold foods. 

Heavy bleeding (lochia) is normal after birth, and using pads instead of tampons will help reduce the risk of infection. 

Pelvic Floor TLC

Your pelvic floor has been through a lot, so start slow with gentle exercises like Kegels. If things still feel “off,” a pelvic floor therapist can help get you back on track.

Emotional Support for New Parents

Acknowledge the Emotional Rollercoaster
Hormonal changes can trigger mood swings, known as the "baby blues." Hormones are working overtime, so give yourself some grace. If you’re feeling down for more than a couple of weeks, don’t hesitate to reach out for support.

Build Your Village

Whether it’s your partner, family, friends, or even a postpartum doula, having people around who “get it” can make all the difference. Don’t be afraid to ask for help—it truly takes a village.

Talk It Out
Sometimes, just talking to someone about how you’re feeling can lighten the load. Be honest with your partner or a close friend, and if you need professional help, that’s okay too.

Watch for Red Flags
Postpartum depression and anxiety are more common than you might think, and they’re nothing to be ashamed of. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or hopeless, reach out to your healthcare provider.

Prepping for Postpartum Life

  1. Prepare Your Home

    • Set up a postpartum recovery space with essentials like a water bottle, snacks, diapers, wipes, and soothing items.

    • Stock your kitchen with freezer meals or easy-to-make recipes.

  2. Learn About Baby Care

    • Familiarize yourself with basic newborn care, such as diapering, swaddling, and feeding, before delivery.

  3. Arrange Help in Advance

    • Enlist friends or family to assist with household tasks like cooking or cleaning.

    • Consider hiring a postpartum doula for professional guidance.

  4. Plan for Feeding Support

    • Whether breastfeeding, formula feeding, or a combination, access support from lactation consultants or pediatricians if needed.

The postpartum period is intense, but it’s also a time of profound growth and love. By focusing on your recovery, leaning on your support system, and giving yourself grace, you can navigate this season with confidence. Remember, taking care of yourself isn’t selfish—it’s the best way to care for your baby, too. You’ve got this!

What is Delayed Cord Clamping?

History of Delayed Cord Clamping

Delayed cord clamping (DCC) is the practice of waiting a period of time after birth before clamping and cutting the umbilical cord. Historically, immediate cord clamping was standard in many parts of the world despite limited evidence supporting its benefits. Early clamping has actually been associated with increased risks of neonatal anemia, intraventricular hemorrhage in preterm infants, and respiratory complications.

Recent guidelines have shifted to endorse delayed cord clamping. The World Health Organization (WHO) and other international bodies have updated their recommendations to support DCC, recognizing its benefits in improving neonatal outcomes.

Why Practice Delayed Cord Clamping?

Delayed cord clamping typically involves waiting at least a few minutes after birth or until the umbilical cord stops pulsating before clamping. This allows the baby to continue receiving blood from the placenta, a process called placental transfusion. 

At Cincinnati Birth Center, we allow parents to decide when they want the cord clamped, but our policy is to typically wait about an hour.

After birth, the umbilical cord still contains a significant volume of blood—up to one-third of the baby’s total blood volume. As the baby takes its first breaths, changes in pressure within the heart and lungs help to draw blood from the placenta through the umbilical cord. The placenta continues to deliver oxygen-rich and nutrient-laden blood to the baby while their circulatory system transitions from reliance on the placenta to independent breathing and circulation.

DCC Benefits for Baby

  1. Improved Iron Stores
    Research shows that delayed cord clamping can significantly increase a newborn's iron stores. A study published in The Journal of Pediatrics found that infants who experienced DCC had higher ferritin levels at four months of age, reducing the risk of iron deficiency anemia—a condition that can impair cognitive and motor development [1].

  2. Better Circulatory Transition
    DCC supports the baby’s circulatory system as they adapt to life outside the womb. By allowing blood flow from the placenta to continue, the baby receives more red blood cells and stem cells, improving oxygen delivery to vital organs during the critical neonatal period.

  3. Reduced Risk of Intraventricular Hemorrhage
    Preterm infants benefit immensely from DCC, with studies showing a reduced risk of intraventricular hemorrhage (bleeding in the brain) and sepsis [2]. These benefits are particularly important for babies born before 37 weeks.

  4. Boosted Immune Function
    The additional stem cells transferred during delayed cord clamping play a role in repairing tissue and boosting the immune system, offering long-term developmental benefits.

Benefits for Mother

  1. Facilitates Natural Birth Processes
    Waiting to clamp the cord may encourage a physiological third stage of labor. This helps the placenta separate naturally, reducing the risk of retained placenta, which can lead to postpartum hemorrhage.

  2. Enhanced Bonding Opportunity
    Delayed cord clamping often pairs with immediate skin-to-skin contact, creating a calmer postpartum environment that supports maternal-infant bonding and successful breastfeeding.

  3. Improved Postpartum Outcomes
    By allowing the placenta to fully deliver its blood supply, the process may lead to a more complete uterine contraction, aiding in reducing postpartum blood loss.

While DCC is beneficial in most cases, certain situations, such as severe fetal distress or maternal hemorrhage, may necessitate immediate cord clamping. Parents should discuss their preferences and birth plans with their care provider to ensure the best outcomes.

From improved iron levels in newborns to enhanced postpartum recovery for mothers, DCC is an important practice that should be part of informed discussions about birth plans.

What Is Meconium Aspiration Syndrome?

Meconium aspiration syndrome (MAS) occurs when a newborn inhales a mixture of meconium (the baby’s first stool) and amniotic fluid into the lungs. About 5-10% of babies born through meconium-stained amniotic fluid develop MAS, which can lead to respiratory complications. 

Meconium is typically passed after birth, but in some cases, especially if the baby experiences stress during labor, it may be released into the amniotic fluid before delivery.

How a Midwife Diagnoses MAS

During and immediately after delivery, the some or all of they following symptoms might prompt a midwife to suspect MAS:

  • A slow heart rate before birth

  • Presence of Meconium-Stained Amniotic Fluid when the water breaks

  • Respiratory Symptoms after birth, such as rapid breathing, grunting, nasal flaring, or cyanosis (a bluish tint to the skin)

  • Low Apgar Scores

  • Unusual Lung Sounds indicating fluid in the lungs

Immediate Steps a Midwife May Take

If she suspects MAS, your midwife will take the following steps to stabilize the baby:

  1. Clear the Airways: Suctioning the baby’s nose and mouth immediately after the head is delivered can help clear meconium before the first breath.

  2. Stimulation: Gently stimulating the baby to cry can encourage effective breathing.

  3. Positioning: The baby may be positioned to maximize airflow and reduce strain on the lungs.

If symptoms persist or worsen, the midwife may provide supplemental oxygen or initiate resuscitation until further help is available.

In many cases, MAS is not immediately obvious and symptoms may not show up for hours after birth. In this situation, your midwife may recommend transferring to a hospital as a precautionary measure. Hospital treatments usually include oxygen, suction, and antibiotics to treat infection. They may extend to using a warmer to maintain body temperature, tapping on the chest to loosen secretions, or using a ventilator in more extreme cases.

Meconium aspiration syndrome rarely leads to long term complications and babies usually heal quickly within a few days. 

Home Birth vs. Birth Center Outcomes

There is a constant back and forth about the safety of planned home birth vs hospital birth. Sometimes a “compromise” is reached where it is agreed that going to a birth center is a “safer” option rather than having one's baby at home. 

Recent research shows that planned home births are just as safe as planned birth center births for low-risk individuals [1]. This finding may help families who are exploring their birthing options to feel more at ease when considering a birth at home.

Home Birth vs. Birth Center Study

The study compared outcomes in planned home and birth center births among low-risk individuals, revealing important data for families considering their birthing options. Both settings demonstrated comparable safety for maternal and neonatal outcomes, underscoring that with proper planning and skilled providers, home births are as safe as birth center births.

Key Findings

  • Maternal and Neonatal Mortality: There was no significant association between either setting and increased rates of intrapartum or neonatal death, with a calculated rate of 1.07 (confidence interval 0.68–1.67).

  • Transfer Rates: Planned home births showed a lower rate of transfers to hospital care compared to birth center births, highlighting effective management of the birthing process at home.

  • Hemorrhage Risk: Unlike some misconceptions about home births, the study found no association with increased risk of postpartum hemorrhage, supporting its safety when attended by qualified providers​.

Why Both Settings Are Safe

  1. Low-Risk Selection
    Eligibility for both settings is based on stringent criteria. Individuals must have uncomplicated pregnancies, with no significant medical or obstetric risk factors, ensuring that they are well-suited to non-hospital births. Most pregnancies qualify as low-risk, but if you have questions, ask your provider.

  2. Qualified Providers
    Certified midwives and other trained professionals lead care in both settings. These providers follow evidence-based guidelines, conduct thorough prenatal assessments, and are qualified to manage complications if they arise.

  3. Emergency Transfer Plans
    Both settings emphasize well-coordinated plans for hospital transfers in the rare event of complications. Clear protocols, combined with proximity to medical facilities, are essential for ensuring timely care if needed. Transfer rates are actually lower for home birth than for birth centers, which may reflect higher levels of preparedness and personalized care in the home setting.

Benefits of Midwife Care

Midwife-led care carries a lower risk of unplanned cesarean and instrumental vaginal deliveries, augmentation of labor, epidural/spinal analgesia, episiotomy, and active management of labor third stage [2]. Whether at home or at a birth center, midwife care is a safe option for most women that carries a range of benefits such as:

  • Lower rates of medical interventions (e.g., cesarean sections, inductions).

  • Greater continuity of care, with personalized support from midwives.

  • Higher maternal satisfaction, often attributed to the autonomy and comfort of birthing in familiar environments​

The findings in this study and others highlight the importance of integrating midwifery-led care and community-based birth settings into the broader maternity care system. This way, more families have access to safe and respectful care and can make decisions aligned with their preferences and clinical circumstances. 

Check Yourself! Cervical Exams at Ho

Whole body health is important - and that includes “down there!”

Performing self-cervical exams is a great way to get in touch with your anatomy and understand more about your reproductive health. Knowing how to check your cervix is a window to learning about your fertility, menstrual cycle, and even labor progression.

Why Self-Cervical Exams?

Self examinations put the knowledge of your body back into your own hands. 

Our healthcare system often keeps people reliant on doctors for basic information about their bodies, but doing your own cervical checks helps you to take an active role in understanding what’s normal for you. 

This awareness can help with:

Fertility Tracking

Cervical position and cervical mucus change based on your cycle. Your cervix is higher and softer in your fertile window and releases a stretchy, egg-white-like mucus ideal for sperm survival and fertilization.

Pregnancy Changes

Toward the end of pregnancy, your cervix softens, moves lower, and may begin to dilate. Self-checks in labor can help you gauge how far along you might be.

Healthcare Decisions

When you know your anatomy, you’re in a better position to advocate for yourself in healthcare settings, making decisions that align with your needs.

How to Perform a Self-Cervical Exam

Don’t know where to start? No worries! A lot of women are unsure of how to navigate this part of their bodies at first.

Here’s a simple step-by-step guide to performing a cervical self-exam. It may feel a bit strange at first, but with practice, it can become a comfortable part of your routine.

  1. Prepare: Wash your hands thoroughly to avoid introducing any bacteria. Get into a comfortable position (such as sitting on the edge of a chair or squatting) where you can easily reach your cervix.

  2. Use Lubrication: A small amount of water-based lube on your fingers can make the process far more comfortable. Remember to stay relaxed and to not tense up!

  3. Insert Your Fingers: Insert two fingers (usually your index and middle fingers) slowly into your vagina. Feel for a round, firm structure towards the back, which might feel like the tip of your nose. If you’ve given birth before, it may feel slightly softer or have a small dimple in the center.

  4. Assess Cervical Position and Texture: During your cycle, you’ll notice changes in your cervix. When you’re fertile, it will feel soft, open, and may be higher. At other times, it may feel firmer, lower, and closed. As you practice over time, you will become familiar with these sensations and better understand the phases of your cycle.

If you’re ever unsure, it’s always okay to ask for help or guidance from a healthcare provider. Just remember that you are the most important decision-maker when it comes to your body and that checking yourself puts you in control of your healthcare journey!

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How to Fight Preterm Birth Statistics

November 17th is Prematurity Awareness Day, drawing attention to the realities of preterm birth, especially among vulnerable communities. Prematurity is a leading cause of infant mortality and lifelong health challenges, especially affecting families from minority and low-income backgrounds. 

Did You Know… Ohio ranks 7th worst in the U.S. for infant mortality, and in Cincinnati, the city’s overall infant mortality rate at 11.1 per 1,000 births [1]. Black babies in particular face mortality rates 2 to 3 times higher than white babies. 

One of our main goals at the CBC is to develop solutions for better birth outcomes for all families in Ohio.

Want to make a contribution? Check out the Safer Birth Foundation and learn how you can make a difference.

Visit the Buckeye Birth Coalition to learn about impacts being made in our communities for safer birthing options in Ohio.

Why Are Minority and Low-Income Groups at Higher Risk?

Preterm birth rates among minority and low-income families are significantly higher, a disparity rooted in several factors:

  1. Health Inequities and Chronic Stress
    Black women and those in low-income households often experience chronic stress from economic challenges and inadequate access to resources. This sustained stress raises cortisol levels, which has been linked to preterm labor [2]. Racial biases in healthcare can also mean these mothers are less likely to receive early interventions or responsive care, increasing preterm birth risk.

  2. Limited Access to Prenatal Care
    Access to quality prenatal care is the first step in identifying and managing risks early in pregnancy. However, financial barriers, lack of transportation, and fewer healthcare facilities in underserved areas often hinder timely prenatal visits. Without regular monitoring and preventive care, complications may go undetected.

  3. Higher Rates of Pre-existing Health Conditions
    Conditions like hypertension, diabetes, and obesity are more prevalent in minority and low-income communities, partially due to socioeconomic factors that limit access to nutritious food, safe exercise options, and regular healthcare. These conditions increase the likelihood of preterm birth and can exacerbate complications during pregnancy.

Preventing Preterm Birth Through Community and Policy Solutions

Here are some key strategies to address preterm birth disparities:

  • Expanding Access to Comprehensive Prenatal Care
    Improving access to prenatal care means investing in community clinics and creating more flexible prenatal programs that consider patients’ financial and logistical needs.  Parents and practitioners need to be vocal about lobbying for new laws that ensure the safety and health of mothers and infants in Ohio.

  • Increasing Support for Midwifery and Doula Services
    Midwifery and doula support have shown excellent outcomes in reducing preterm births. Studies consistently show that midwifery care leads to better health outcomes, including significantly lower preterm birth rates. The Cincinnati Birth Center has maintained a 0% preterm birth rate over the past two years, aligning with broader U.S. data showing midwifery practices often have fewer preterm births compared to traditional obstetric care.

  • Implementing Community-Based Health Programs
    Community initiatives focused on maternal and infant health equip mothers with valuable resources, guidance, and consistent check-ins. Collaborating with community organizations also helps address broader social determinants of health, from housing instability to food insecurity.

Midwifery Care: A Path to Healthier Birth Outcomes

Midwifery care offers a solution to many of the challenges faced by women at risk of preterm birth. Midwives emphasize relationship-building, continuity of care, and addressing the holistic needs of mothers throughout pregnancy, which can significantly reduce the stress that contributes to early labor.

Many pregnancy risks can be lowered simply through good nutrition and support.

On Prematurity Awareness Day, we’re reminded that reducing preterm birth rates—especially in underserved communities—requires both individual and systemic changes. By expanding access to midwifery care, improving prenatal services, addressing issues within the system, and building community-based support programs, we can work toward a future where all babies, regardless of their background, have a healthy start. 

Visit the Safer Birth Foundation and the Buckeye Birth Coalition to see how you can make a difference

Newborn Procedures: Eye Ointment and Vitamin K

There are several newborn procedures that take place directly or soon after your baby is born, and it’s one of our goals to help parents reach a full understanding of each practice long before birth so they can decide what is best for their child.

Two common procedures are the application of an eye ointment and an injection of vitamin K. These practices have been routine in many countries for decades, but an increasing number of doctors, midwives, and parents are conducting more research on whether these are necessary 100% of the time.

Eye Ointment: What Is It and Why Is It Used?

The eye ointment applied to newborns is usually an antibiotic, such as erythromycin. Its primary purpose is to prevent eye infections caused by exposure to bacteria during childbirth. Historically, the concern was about Neisseria gonorrhoeae, the bacteria responsible for gonorrhea, which can cause severe eye infections in newborns, potentially leading to blindness. Chlamydia is another infection that can be passed from mother to child during delivery, and the ointment also offers some protection against this.

Why are more and more parents opting out of the eye ointment procedure?

  • While these infections are serious, they’re mainly an issue if the mother has an STI. If the mother is STI negative, the risk of an eye infection is extremely low.

  • The ointment used can cause temporary vision blurriness, which might interfere with early bonding and eye contact between newborn and parents.

  • When antibiotics are overused, there is the potential for developing antibiotic-resistant bacteria. While the risk is small in the case of eye ointment, some parents prefer to avoid unnecessary antibiotics.

Vitamin K: What Is It and Why Is It Given?

Vitamin K is a vitamin needed to clot blood. Newborns naturally have low levels of vitamin K since it does not pass through the placenta very well. This puts them at risk for a condition called Vitamin K Deficiency Bleeding (VKDB), which only occurs in about every 1 of 10,000 infants. However, this condition can lead to serious, often fatal bruising,bleeding, and/or brain hemorrhage. It is completely unpredictable which babies will be affected and which will not.

To prevent VKDB, newborns are routinely given a vitamin K injection shortly after birth. A single injection provides protection for months, giving the baby time to naturally build up their own vitamin K levels.

Are there any reasons to not give Vitamin K?

  • Some parents are hesitant to give their newborn an injection immediately after birth, preferring to minimize medical interventions.

  • Others are concerned with administering anything synthetic, preferring natural approaches to increasing Vitamin K levels (such as through diet or oral supplements). Unfortunately, breast milk supplies very little Vitamin K, so babies do not get an adequate amount of the vitamin until they start eating solid foods. 

The decision on whether or not to administer Vitamin K is nuanced. While VKDB is extremely uncommon, the consequences are devastating. 

Not sure which direction you want to take with newborn procedures? We’ll be more than happy to discuss your options during appointments and come up with a plan that works best for your family!

Should You Circumcise Your Newborn?

Circumcision has been practiced for centuries, often rooted in religious, cultural, or social traditions. In the United States, the procedure became widely normalized during the 20th century, based on claims of improved hygiene, reduced infection risk, or even just on grounds of aesthetics. For parents weighing this important decision, it's important to also consider the potential harms of circumcision before their child is born. 

Take a deep dive with Dr. Eric Tygenhof on newborn circumcision

What Does the Foreskin Do?

The foreskin is not just a redundant piece of tissue - it serves several important biological functions. It protects the glans (head of the penis) from irritants, keeps the area moist, and contains thousands of nerve endings that enhance sexual sensitivity later in life. From a purely anatomical perspective, the foreskin is a naturally occurring, functional part of the male body, and its removal permanently alters functionality.

Debunking the Health Benefits of Circumcision

Circumcision advocates often cite health benefits such as reduced risks of urinary tract infections (UTIs), sexually transmitted infections (STIs), and penile cancer. However, the data behind these claims is often overstated or context-dependent. For example:

  • Urinary Tract Infections: UTIs are relatively rare in male infants, with only about 2% of boys experiencing one before they turn 5. Even though circumcision might reduce the risk slightly, infections can typically be treated effectively with antibiotics. The small risk reduction does not justify the removal of healthy tissue from all newborn males.

  • Sexually Transmitted Infections: While some studies suggest a lower risk of HIV transmission among circumcised men in high-prevalence areas, such as sub-Saharan Africa, the situation is not comparable in countries like the U.S., where HIV prevention through safe sexual practices and education is far more effective.

  • Penile Cancer: Penile cancer is very rare in both circumcised and intact men in the USA, making circumcision an unnecessary preventive measure for this condition. About 300,000 babies would need to be circumcised to prevent one case of penile cancer. Proper hygiene and regular medical checkups are far more relevant factors in minimizing cancer risks.

Parents may also choose to circumcise their newborns on religious grounds, for aesthetic reasons, or because it is more culturally accepted. If you are not considering circumcision based on religious reasons, we want to challenge you to explore why circumcision may not be the best choice.

An Ethical Debate: Bodily Autonomy and Consent

One of the strongest arguments against newborn circumcision is the question of consent. A newborn simply cannot provide informed consent for a permanent surgical procedure that has no immediate medical necessity. Many critics, including medical ethicists, argue that circumcision infringes on the individual’s right to bodily autonomy, as it removes a healthy, functional part of the body without the person’s consent. Waiting until adulthood, when the individual can make an informed choice, respects their autonomy and allows them to weigh the pros and cons based on personal preference or health considerations.

The Risks of Circumcision

Though often described as a routine procedure, circumcision carries more risks than people realize. These risks include bleeding, infection, and complications from anesthesia. In some cases, circumcision has led to more severe outcomes, such as damage to the penis or excessive scarring. Studies have also shown that newborns experience significant pain during and after circumcision, despite the use of local anesthetics. 

This directory of articles on the complications of circumcision show the dozens of adverse affects many people experience.

Circumcision also often affects sexual experiences later in life. Circumcision removes one of the most sensitive areas of the penis - in fact, the moveable skin creates more sexual pleasure than circumcised males are able to experience. This Danish study concluded that circumcision is responsible for sexual difficulty among many men.

Caring for an Intact Penis: Education Is Key

One common reason parents opt for circumcision is the belief that it will make hygiene easier. However, with proper education, caring for an intact penis is straightforward and requires no more effort than caring for a circumcised one. Misconceptions around intact care often stem from a lack of understanding or outdated medical advice.

  • For Newborns and Infants: During the early years, the foreskin is fused to the glans, making it unnecessary (and harmful) to retract the foreskin for cleaning. Parents should simply wash with water and mild soap.

  • As Boys Grow: Over time, the foreskin naturally becomes retractable. When this happens, boys should be taught to gently retract the foreskin to clean underneath during baths or showers, much like how one cleans other body parts. There is no need for aggressive cleaning or special procedures—just normal hygiene.

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The decision to circumcise a newborn is a deeply personal one, but it's important that parents make this choice with accurate, up-to-date information. 

As awareness grows and the science behind circumcision is critically re-examined, more families are recognizing that the most natural option is often the best one. By keeping their children intact, they allow them to make their own choices about their bodies when they are ready, giving them autonomy, respect, and a balanced approach to health.

Yoni Steaming for Fertility, Birth, and Postpartum Healing

Women’s health has been seeing a decline, especially in the United States. Infertility, Endometriosis, PCOS, and other health issues have skyrocketed, alongside childbirth complications. Many women are realizing that it’s time to start looking to tried and true medicinal practices that have been around for centuries to get their health back on track.

Yoni steaming, also known as vaginal steaming, is an ancient practice traditionally used in various cultures around the world. When used correctly, this is a safe therapy that involves exposing the vaginal area to steam or smoke infused with medicinal herbs. For centuries, women have used yoni steaming for help in boosting fertility, easing childbirth, and aiding postpartum recovery.

The Benefits of Yoni Steaming

  • Fertility and Menstrual Health: One of the main draws to yoni steaming is to enhance fertility. The practice is believed to balance hormones, regulate menstrual cycles, and cleanse the uterus, making it an attractive option for women seeking to conceive. Herbal blends used in yoni steaming often include ingredients such as mugwort, rosemary, wormwood, and basil—plants known for their detoxifying and circulation-boosting properties.

    The steam is thought to soften and nourish the tissues of the reproductive system, increasing blood flow to the pelvic area and helping to remove any blockages that could affect fertility or other health problems such as fibroids, infections, or painful periods. 

  • Pregnancy: Some use yoni steaming to prepare the body for labor, usually at 37 weeks or after (we do not recommend steaming during pregnancy at any point before 37 weeks). The warm steam relaxes the pelvic muscles and perineum, which may reduce the risk of tearing. 

  • Postpartum Recovery: After delivery, the vaginal area may experience swelling, soreness, or discomfort. Yoni steaming is believed to help cleanse the uterus, promote tissue repair, and reduce inflammation.

The warm steam infused with healing herbs can soothe the perineal area, support the body in releasing lochia (postpartum discharge), and restore the reproductive organs to their pre-pregnancy state.

How to Yoni Steam

What is Used?

  • Herbs (Commonly used herbs include mugwort, rosemary, lavender, oregano, basil, chamomile, and calendula)

  • Large bowl or pot

  • Heat source

  • Towel or blanket to create a tent around your lower body, trapping the steam

  • A comfortable chair or yoni steaming stool (These are specially designed with a hole in the seat to allow the steam to rise directly to the vaginal area)

How to Steam

Use about one cup of dried herbs or two cups of fresh herbs and place them in the pot or bowl. Boil 2-3 quarts of water and pour over the herbs. Allow the mixture to steep for a few minutes and so that the water slightly cools. 

In a comfortable, relaxing area, sit or squat over the pot so that the steam can rise directly to your vaginal area. Drape a large towel or blanket like a tent around your waist to trap the steam, then remain seated over the steam for 20-40 minutes.

Drink water during and after steaming to remain hydrated.

Safety Precautions

  1. Temperature Control: Do not burn yourself! Always check the temperature of the steam before positioning yourself over the pot.

  2. Timing: It’s generally recommended to steam 1-2 times per month, especially before and after menstruation. However, frequency may vary based on individual needs. Avoid steaming during menstruation or if you have an active infection.

  3. Medical Conditions: If you have any medical conditions, such as pelvic inflammatory disease, yeast infections, or open sores, avoid yoni steaming. Women who are pregnant should hold off from steaming until after at least 37 weeks gestation, and then only under professional supervision.

  4. Hygiene: Make sure all equipment used for steaming is clean and disinfected before and after each use to prevent infections. Use only high-quality, organic herbs to avoid exposure to pesticides or contaminants.

  5. Listen to Your Body: If you experience any discomfort, pain, or unusual symptoms during or after steaming, stop the practice immediately and consult a healthcare provider.

This Fall, we will be offering traditional Yoni Steaming as a part of the Cincinnati Birth Center services for pre- and post-pregnancy!

Please feel free to reach out with any questions - we are happy to discuss with you!